I Used to Say, “All Lives Matter.” Here’s Why I Don’t Hide Behind That Excuse Anymore.

Coming to grips with your own inherent denial of injustice is hard, but it can happen.

Amy Colleen
4 min readMay 31, 2020

Let’s get something established right away:

All human life has value, and no innocent person deserves to die.

But though this statement is absolutely truthful, there are times when it is used as a distraction, a deflection, and a detraction from a larger issue.

I used to be the type of person who said, “ALL lives matter!” in response to those who were telling the world, “Black lives matter.”

I thought I was being just. I thought I was stating the obvious. I thought I was being more inclusive, more compassionate, and more tolerant.

All lives matter. Of course. Everyone knows that.

Five years ago, I cringed a little bit when I first heard of #blacklivesmatter. As a young white woman, I felt a deep-rooted, hesitant stirring of indignation.

Not because I thought that Black lives didn’t matter.

Not because I thought Black people were somehow less worthy.

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Amy Colleen
Amy Colleen

Written by Amy Colleen

I read a lot of books & sometimes I’m funny. I aspire to be a novelist, practice at humor & human interest writing, and am very fond of the Oxford comma.

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